Stress from hurtful comments. How to not to take it personally
There will be people that will not be happy with what you are doing on the webcam. They call you all sorts of names. They will call you a whore, and several other names that will dampen your spirit as a webcam model. There are others who will be trolling you in whatever season you are. The trolls are always getting the negativity in whatever you do. All models go through this problem from time to time. It hurts and makes you feel like quitting. Do not let their words distract you at all. Here are ways to avoid getting hurt by the negative energy and emotionally disconnect from the hurtful visitors online.
Focus on the goal of the session
The end should be the motivation to keep you going? You are looking for cash. Right? These are not your friends. They do not know you at all. You should never make them your friends. It is not a socialization activity but a real business. Therefore, consider your financial goal as the ultimate goal and motivation for your activities. Most of the negative comments will persist when you react or respond to the comments. Cut down the fuel supply to the negative energy by simply ignoring them. They are not worth your time at all.
Gear towards more private sessions
A lot of people that have negative energy tend to be the people who do not pay for the sessions. The freebies attract even people with little or no interest in whatever you are doing or just bumped on you when idling online. People who spend on you would rarely put negative comments in the chat box even when the session is unsatisfactory. Therefore, the best way to deal with these idlers is to move your business to private shows where everyone in the show has to part with some cash. Ignore most of the comments when doing a free promo on the Internet.
Take care of your emotional health before and after the session
Sometimes the reason why you feel the emotional pressure from the hurtful statements is because you also have emotional problems that need to be handled. Do not use the webcam as a way to get away from emotional problems in your life. Take care of the hurts and worries you have had in life before you get to the webcam. Otherwise, the negative comments will only serve to fan the pain that is within you. In such a situation, you will find it hard to ignore the trotters. Fight your personal troubles out there and come to the camming session fresh to make some good cash.
Read a book or listen to some good music
Take a short break after several sessions of action. Music cools down the flaring emotions while a good book acts as comic effect from the tension that comes with emotionally intensive activities. Many experienced cam girls have a magazine that carry in their purse everywhere they go. When they are not in front of the camera, they are flipping the pages of the magazine admiring the adverts that have been put on it. It also increases the desire to make more from your business and buy some of the cool gadgets advertised in the magazine.
When selecting a book for your reading, go for topics that excite you. These can be autobiographies, fashion, short stories and so forth. Exciting topics makes you feel gold about yourself.
Make use of the ban button
Most of the leading camming sites have a button. If a viewer becomes too unruly and starts spewing insults all over the place, you can ban him or her from ever accessing your profile.
However, just like any other business, do not be in a hurry to throw the misbehaving customers away especially where the customers are investing a lot in you. You could open private conversations with them and ask them what was wrong with the show. Most of the high paying customers will go straight to the reason they are not happy with your show. How, if they continue to degrade you by the hurtful statements ban them at once. Your emotional health is more important than the money they are giving you.
Treat yourself
Another way to heal from the hurtful statements is to gift yourself with an experience that you love. It can be a visit to the local park, a movie, a dinner out or any other activity that you love. Increasing your love for yourself ensures you do not give an ear to people who talk of your flaws and abuse you. Make self-treat a common activity from time to time.
Do not let the trotters and haters bring your cam business to a stop. You are actually giving a service for a business whose main goal is to make some cash. Do not let anyone or anything come on your way to reach the goal. In fact, there are only a few hate mongers; most of the other viewers love you. Do not let the few bring you down.
