Are you a camgirl who doesn’t usually know what conversations to have with your clients? Are you looking for the best camgirl conversation starter ideas on the internet? Do you want to take your webcam modeling career to the next level by becoming one of the most engaging camgirls in the industry?
If your answers to the above questions are “yes”, “yes”, and “yes”, then you have come to the right place. This article will guide you through the best ways a top camgirl starts conversations. We will be discussing or looking at different conversation starters for camgirls. What you can say, what you shouldn’t say, lingos and slangs of the camming world.
What Are The Common Camgirl Slangs/Languages?
Like every profession, every field, everything we do, there are languages and slangs we have crafted for ourselves for better understanding and a sense of collectiveness. For soccer, you have lingos like foul, free-kick et.c. The camming world also has its lingos and you find camgirls use them in their conversations. The next few paragraphs will explain briefly what some of these lingos are and how they are used.
BDSM (Bondage+Discipline/Dominance+Submission/Slave+Master)
This is a broad concept that covers types of lifestyle and kink play. Members will usually ask a camgirl if BDSM is available. if you are a master-slave, wife, female, or slave role-player, you have to tell the model so she knows how to play along.
Femdom
A femdom is a female dominatrix. Female dominance is an activity in BDSM, where a man is dominated by a woman. A common misconception is that dominance requires force. Sometimes dominance does not require even physical discomfort in the submissive: it may be verbal, with degrading tasks.
Yellow Wall
When you hear this word being used, it does not refer to a yellow-painted wall but a continuous stream of tips. A yellow wall is gotten when tips are dropped one after the other, usually without chats in between. The slang yellow wall was coined from camgirls rooms and channels with a yellow highlight around tips when they are dropped.
Ninja
A person that invisibly tips a camgirl. However, the model can see the member. Their invisibility is to other members and not the model. Instead of saying the name of the member to keep their details secret, several camgirls would say verbally, “Thank you, Ninja.”
C2C
This is sometimes known as cam-to-cam and is a function of camming websites that allows a two-way view. Due to its scope, sometimes webcam models need to see clients effectively to do their job. The C2C function enables the webcam model to see the members of her room or client as the member watches the model.
POV
In full, this means “Point Of View”. This is when the webcam is placed in a way clients or members of a channel get a real-time view experience. When viewing, It looks as if they are actually in the same room as the camgirl.
JOI
During a cam-to-cam show, webcam models give clients “Jerking Off Instruction”. This is for the satisfaction of the client as some of them like such actions. In case you hear JOI, be rest assured what is being referred to is jerking off instructions.
Beautiful Agony (BA)
Coined from the camming website “Beautiful Agony”, It refers to a cum display style that only reveals the face. Most camgirls during their broadcast put their body on display, but BA is an act where during orgasm only the face of the camgirl is displayed. It’s a common fetish for some to watch the models orgasm close up, for this, they request a BA.
B/G or G/G or B/B
Like the sensor guidance (R, PG, 18+) we get for movies that tell the expected content of a particular movie. B/G, G/G & B/B are identification to let clients know the content of cam videos or live rooms. This is also a way to notify people that it’s not a solo show.
ATM/A2M
Ass to Mouth like it’s popularly called is when a webcam model inserts a toy – dildo, vibrators, etc. in her ass and goes ahead to insert it in her mouth or licks it. In a two individuals show, ass to mouth is done when one individual inserts his/her tongue and mouth in the ass of another.
Troll
Trolls are members of a channel who want to get rid of you intentionally by saying odd or disturbing things. The best approach to dealing with them is to immediately ignore and silence/ban them as any response could be considered to “feed trolls” and to appease them.
DP
Double penetration most times called DP is an act of inserting items like toys, dildos, vibrators into the vaginal, and anus at the same time. These items are inserted together either by the camgirl in a solo show or by another in a double performance.
Hitachi Magic Wand
Sometimes called HMW or Hitachi. This oftentimes is when a lady is being massaged by the Hitachi Magic Wand girls. They are one of the most effective body massagers used for clitoral stimulation. These acts are used in cam shows because they can create very intense orgasms for viewers.
There are other popular slangs out there and some will be made in the future by webcam models and their patronizers. The lingo of the camming world should be watched out for, this gives a better understanding of conversations between camgirls/webcam models and their clients.
Why Do People Patronize Camgirls?
At this point you might be wondering; Why go through the stress of understanding lingos and slangs? What is the importance of this to camgirls, webcam models, and clients? The answer to this is simple, it is because as a camgirl you want to satisfy your clients to get more reward and as a client, you want to be satisfied with every penny spent. In this section, we will be discussing why people patronize camgirls and you can also add this to your camgirls conversational starter tips.
There are lots of reasons people patronize camgirls and these include time-killing, adult purposes, confessions, pseudo-therapy, or genuine love for the webcam model. With problems such as boredom, repetitive routine at home, some men find themselves tired of this and need a change or something new. Some patronize webcam models solely for sexual purposes, they want to have some sort of adventure, some fun in their sex life and they get that from camgirls. However, a recent discovery has shown that some men patronize camgirls just to talk to them. They feel the urge to confess and talk to them about fetishes and fantasy they wish they could get or try with their partners and a lot of other things while some just visit because they love and admire the model
For every client, there should be a different approach to the conversation to be had. The way you handle clients paying for time with you should be different from how you speak to one who is interested in adult activities such as – masturbation, beautiful agony, Jerking off instruction, etc. because they aren’t paying for the same thing. What you must understand as a camgirl is conversations are a tool to getting more tips and making you more efficient at your job. A little secret to also keep at heart is this; “Those who love you will tip you more”. The client who loves you will most likely be your biggest patronizers, you should keep an eye out for those.
Once in awhile camgirls get clients who are a bit in love with themselves and want to show off their size, stamina among other things. Such clients must be handled with care as bad publicity and reviews can be gotten from such people. These sorts of viewers can also be a source of good tips as they are quick to show what they are capable of doing. In all that you do, as a camgirl, conversations are powerful and you must know how to use them to soothe, ease, and interest your client.
What Are The Types Of Camgirl Conversation Starters?
When you bump into a friend on the subway or have a conversation with a colleague at work, the flow of that conversation is almost without a direction and no end in mind. You aren’t paying nor are you being paid to have that conversation. There is no tension, no excitement, no expectation. With camgirls, conversations are a tiny bit different and this is because a client has paid you or is willing to pay for a service and he has expectations to be met. Sometimes they want that conversation to lead somewhere and this builds some excitement and tension in the air. Professional webcam models are experienced in the art of communication and this helps them play with a man’s mind which makes the man spend more time in the company of the model. This is already happening in the industry and some camgirls have mastered this act to a certain level of consistency, while others are learning how to approach conversations. This section of the article suggests ways in which you as a camgirl can start a conversation with your client and members of rooms.
There are a few types of conversation starters, you can either start by – throwing a compliment, by making a fairly mild joke, with a harmless observation, or by just asking a question. The goal of a conversation starter is to draw the attention of a client. When conversation starters are used, the client usually gives a response to such starters. It’s a case of actions that will naturally create a reaction. Conversations shouldn’t be started randomly and blindly, you must decide how to start a conversation by reading the room and knowing your clients’ mood. There are generally 3 broad themes you can run a conversation around as these have been said to be natural conversation starters by psychologists and professionals of human behaviour. These themes are explained briefly below.
General Question/Subjects:
General questions and subjects are interest pickers that aren’t personal and specific to people but drive them into a conversation. These general themes are used to gear responses and make people converse with one another. When you ask a client; how his weekend went, what his favorite number is, what the last funny video he watched was, they feel powerful, respected, and are interested in that conversation. This usually is the first step to gaining their attention. This is because they feel you have picked a certain interest in them and thus they engage in your conversation by providing answers. Although, a general question should be used carefully as you are almost certain what a client wants before the conversation starts. Below are samples of general questions that can be used to start a conversation.
- How obsessed do you get with something?
- What is your ideal method of wasting time?
- What song would it be if you had to do intro music?
- Who are your favorites in the entertainment industry?
- Where’s the nicest place you’ve visited?
It is prudent to know these questions aren’t static and can always be used as the camgirl sees fit. You should try to improvise by being flexible and creative. There are also no rigid or expected answers. You should allow the client to direct the flow of the conversation. Remember a happy client means more tips.
Personal Questions/Subjects:
Personal questions or subjects like general themes are also powerful. The only difference here is these questions are targeted at the individual. These questions usually require some level of self-awareness before they are answered. They are usually direct and straightforward. To maintain a great conversational list, It is advisable to follow up general questions with personal questions or subjects as this draws the client into a place of comfort and sometimes trust with you. It gives the impression that you care about them and this allows them to get comfortable.
- What is the favorite season of yours?
- What’s more relevant, a big car or a big house?
- Is where you live the most beautiful place?
- The one thing you go everywhere with?
- When you hang out with friends, what are the benefits of your group?
Notice how the sample questions above are a bit personal and not generalized. These questions allow the client to open up more to you, you gain some form of control of their attention and you can keep them in your channel for more time. There are no prerequisites to these sorts of questions as you can also use them as your conversation starters in place of general questions.
Sexual Questions/Subjects:
Sexual questions or subjects can be tough but are also daring. Their purpose is to draw attention and keep them fixed on the subject matter “sex”. A research carried out by Chris L. Kleinke, a psychologist at the University of Alaska posits after about 600 surveys that men who patronize webcam models like their questions direct and straightforward. To build up pressure and excitement, professional and experienced camgirls advise you don’t start your show with sexual questions but do not take too long before you approach the subject except if the client isn’t there for that purpose. This act is said to build excitement in the room and give room for more members to join in if it’s a public show. Below are samples of sexual questions you might use as conversation starters or peak interest catcher.
- If you could be next to me right now, what would you do?
- What part of my body would you kiss first?
- What do you think my erotic spots are?
- What do you want me to wear for you next time?
- Where would a dangerous place to have sex with me be?
Always remember the goal of conversation starters are to peak interest and keep clients happy for more tips and payout. These themes aren’t constant nor are they the standard, there is always room for exploring.
Preparing Topic Memo:
There are cases where camgirls have had to abruptly stop a show because they just couldn’t carry the conversation. Webcam models get bad reviews from clients dues to sudden silence or lapses in conversations. All of this can happen when a model is either distracted or out of discussion topics.
Questions that might be running through your mind are: What happens when conversations are going well? How can a camgirl avoid such a situation? What are the preparatory steps to take to avoid such a situation? Due to the way the job is and the unpredictability of clients and their mood, conversations might be hard to start, also troubling to carry on and sustain. To avoid this, a professional webcam model advises you to create a topic memo beforehand. You make this for yourself to guide your conversation and keep you in check. With a topic memo, you are most likely to not get distracted or run out of topics. Unlike pro-webcam models who can drift in and out of conversations and are well capable of reviving a dying conversation due to their vast experience. You as a starter need to prepare a memo to help you keep your clients interested till the end. You must remember you don’t have to talk about everything you have written down and do not rush through the conversation. The goal is to keep them engaged and not to teach them something. A topic memo will come in handy as you start your conversation as a camgirl who is just starting out her webcam modeling career, but with experience, you will also learn how to carry on conversations without needing a memo.
What Are The Topics You Should Avoid?
As much as you want to keep your clients interested and you want them satisfied so they can always return, there are some topics and some “not to say” things during your conversations as a webcam model or a camgirl. Always remember the conversation you are having isn’t with a friend or your laundryman. It’s a work conversation and you are expected to keep it as professional as possible except otherwise stated by the client. So what are these topics one should avoid? A few are highlighted below with a few reasons why you should avoid them.
Personal Information:
Never disclose your personal information to any client. Webcam modeling websites advise their hosts and webcam models to never use their real name but fake usernames when signing up as this is to protect them and keep them safe from harm. Most camgirls do their jobs for money to either pay bills or some auxiliary spending that exists and most of them do so without their family members or friends knowing. You must keep your identity secret from prying eyes and community members who think you are doing something wrong and sinful. Note that if you do decide to reveal your name to a client, you do so at your own risk. Should any harm come your way from another user or a view of your channel, you are in most cases going to bear the consequences alone. Camsites can not be held accountable if something happens to you as their privacy policy and law gives them immunity with these sort of situations.
Local Information:
It is also advisable to stay away from discussions that might give away your location. Local information about your surroundings shouldn’t be given out or shared. When conversing with a client, make sure your utterance doesn’t draw their attention to where you are located in real life. Clear your room or view space of items or hints of where you are in real life. This is also to keep you safe. Note that, as a camgirl, you might get one or two affectionate clients who might want more than they get through your cams. These clients sometimes go through the extreme length of trying to find webcam models in real life for a live-action. This has led to some cases of abuse and thus webcam modeling websites warn against giving such information out.
Controversial Topics:
You need to avoid controversial topics like politics, religions, cultural stances, ideological inclinations on your shows. These subject topics are found to be very controversial and society barely has a consensus on matters surrounding them. Religion, politics, culture like every other thing are personal and so people’s views about them differ from one another. Such contents and topics can keep clients away from your channel and even create a rift between clients or members of your channel and that’s bad for your business. Even if someone were to ask from your list of clientele, find ways to wiggle out of the conversation or turn it around. Controversial topics are a no-no for business and a no-go subject area.
What Are The Best Camgirl Conversation Starters?
Having read about the types of conversational starters, the next step is learning how to start the conversation itself. Is there a process or format to be followed? How should a camgirl carry conversations? The truth and basic answer here is there are a lot of ways to begin a conversation as a camgirl. No rule book states protocols or guidelines for conversations. However, there have been some standard practices by camgirls and webcam models that allow for a speculative format. This format has been said to be effective and efficient in making clients happy and getting the job done.
Step 1: Start with general questions
General questions are said to be warming and a general way to get conversations started. Imagine bumping into a stranger and your first utterance to such a person is to go straight up personal with them without some basic conversations. The conversation wouldn’t feel right and the situation will be bad. So start low.
Step 2: Follow up with personal questions
After warming your way into their hearts with some general questions, it is time to pull out the personal questions. Remember to always read the room as you don’t want clients feeling interrogated or like you are trying to pry into their personal lives. It’s best to keep the question as basic as possible.
Step 3: The sexual questions
At this point in the conversation, the client is most likely to relax and is no longer distracted. Their attention has most likely been captured by you and the conversation that’s been going on for a while now. It’s time to get to business and earn those tips. You can start pulling out those sexual questions to build up arousal in your clients.
Remember the best way to get your clients interest and those tips coming in, is by creating that wow factor that makes them come back for more. You cannot be rigid in how you start conversations and in your approaches to your shows.
How To Find Topics To Discuss?
Good and interesting conversations center around topics that people are eager to discuss and share opinions about. How then does one get these topics for discussions? The following are ways of getting conversational topics.
Research
The world of camgirls and webcam modeling is a fast-growing space. It increases as the world grows and so does the diversity of the clientele and users. As a camgirl, you should take your time in researching and understanding what clients are looking for in conversations from webcam models and camgirls. This will give you the ability to have tailored conversations.
Networking
It is almost impossible to be a camgirl without a network. You either have a friend who is also a camgirl or you will meet some on the job. Your ability to network and connect to other webcam models will enhance your conversational skills. You can ask them for tips and what topics their clients like. This will further help you in being a good conversationalist.
Follow the news
Although most clients aren’t coming to you to discuss the state of the country or lawmaking, there are times when such conversations might come up and you need to be informed and also be able to use satire in lightening the moods of your client.
These methods are efficient ways of getting topics to discuss but you shouldn’t limit yourself to these. There are lots of ways to fish for information. The internet is a large space filled with data. Take your time to do the work and get those topics.
How To Make A Client Feel You Are Interested In Them?
Clients are the most essential part of being a webcam model. You want to do the best thing possible to satisfy them. One way to do this is by making the client feel like you are interested in them and not just their tip. This builds trust and gives them a sense of safety with you. This, in most cases, helps your clients feel comfortable in your channel. The trick here is to win them over while getting paid for the job done. Here are a few things you can do to make them feel you are interested in them.
- A great conversation is always a good way to start winning hearts. Be a great conversationalist. Know when to listen, know when to say something, know when advice is being sorted for. You should be able to discern what is needed in a room and what conversation is needed. Generally, carry the conversation.
- Compliments are also an add on. Once in a while, you should give compliments to your clients. Tell them how you appreciate them, how well they have done and sometimes give a sexual compliment. Clients want to know you are also enjoying your time with them as well as they do. Drop a compliment once in a while and try to sound as genuine as possible.
- A little empathy when they tell you about their problems. Remember not all clients are coming to you for adult activities, some are genuinely just interested in you and some just want to talk to someone. When clients like that approach you, you need to show empathy for their troubles. As long as you get those yellow walls, a little empathy shouldn’t be a problem.
- Be patient. Sometimes, clients can be a bit difficult. Always requesting for this or that without putting your emotions and feelings into considerations. Some clients believe so long as they pay and give tips, they can demand anything. Here you need to be patient, as well as be calm at all times. This is not to say you should allow trolls and bullies into your channel. Remember it is your show and you are in front of the camera. You should be in control always.
Making a viewer know you are interested in them is the most important part of the job and camgirl conversation starters. You need to show that sense of feeling and interest in the client. When they sense that from you they will likely become your biggest customers.
Try Not To Be Too Routine
Camgirls or webcam models are constantly putting up shows, therefore they need to learn how to come up with fresh routines to keep their clients from getting bored. The constant delivery of contents can have a large impact on the creativity level of the models. This is why camgirls work with different themes, outfits, ideas, and role play to keep the interest of viewers. The same can be said for camgirls conversation starters. When conversations revolve around the same thing, they tend to get boring. When lines and sentences become repetitive, viewers lose interest. This section will address ways a camgirl can switch up routines and conversational style.
Create a new theme
Conversations revolve around themes most times. As a way to keep being creative and flexible, you should create new themes and ways to start up conversations to soothe your viewers. Remember to make them interesting, captivating, and make them follow through till it gets to the goal of the show.
Take a new route
Rather than start a conversation with a question, you could start with a compliment or a random thought. Always try to find a new route that leads to what your client requires. This keeps them interested and invested in your channel.
Add something new to your space
The human eye is a capturing device. Clients most times remember what your viewing space looked like yesterday or the last time they viewed your channel. You can add a new item to your space. This mostly gears the client into making a remark or asking questions. Rather than starting the conversation, they do that for you.
Explore
As a camgirl, do not be afraid to explore. Pick up a new book, learn the basics of a new language, share these with your client and watch conversations grow from there. Clients like to know a bit about models and exploring is a good way to switch things up.
Be spontaneous
Being spontaneous is an essential part of being a camgirl. Most of your shows will run on live demands from members of your channel and the viewers of your shows. You must be spontaneous in your conversations as well. This lets the viewers know you aren’t running on a script.
Clients and patronizes of camgirls are usually looking for something new, fresh, and exciting. Something interesting, and something that they can effectively use to kill time or get their minds off things. By sticking to a routine, you run at the possibility of losing your client and those tips won’t come in. There is a need to be creative and flexible in your conversations.
Conclusion
It is a myth that camgirls or webcam models are only there for sexual content. The evolution of the profession has brought changes to the industry. There is an increasing need to communicate with your viewers and client. You need to find ways to connect with them as they enjoy themselves and you get those tips. This article gives a broad but not limiting perspective on how camgirls conversation starters can best be done, the types of camgirls conversation starters, some lingo, and slangs of the camming world. The goal of the article is to give you pieces of information about conversation starters, prepare you for your shows, and also to make you a professional at what you do.
Always remember that a good conversation starter is an ultimate key to grabbing your clients’ attention. Learn the tricks of asking questions, what sort of question to ask, and how to go about it. Remember clients come to you for various reasons and you must be able to give them what they want for them to spend more time on your channel and give those tips. It is essential to remember that you are not to give out your information and give local information during these conversations. This is to keep yourself safe and your identity is hidden as much as possible. Stay away from controversial topics such as religion, politics, ideologies. They mostly cause a rift and keep clients away.
On a final note, as a camgirl, you are in charge of your broadcast. You determine the extent you want to go. You determine the sort of content you put out and what clients you want but in all, they all require conversations to pick their interest and keep them coming back.
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